The story and video came to me on a fantasy football text thread. I developed an immediate opinion. I got more information and reversed my opinion. Then I got even more information yesterday afternoon and went back to something like my first opinion.
At no time has it mattered what my opinion is. We just have them.
I have wondered whether women have found this gallant, frightening, or ridiculous. Women are not identical, so presumably there are many opinions, some mixed. I don't know what we would do with such information or whether it matters.