When Jonathan was first looking at colleges, I got a copy of
National Review’s guide to schools which had required core curriculum. (I should note, BTW, that it was not a guide
to conservative schools, as places like Columbia and St. Olaf’s were on the
list.) There were 56 schools, including William and Mary, Grove City, and a few
others that were already on his radar or ours.
After reading it, I told him I would be happy with any of the
choices. Asbury was listed and praised. The reason behind their list was that one could
get an excellent education at many colleges, there was more of a guarantee of
this at a place that had required literature, science, and history
courses. I agreed fully with this
sentiment, and leaned heavily on Jonathan to stay within those bounds. This was less explicitly the case with Ben,
but still a clear expectation.
Looking back, this now seems like reminding Baptists that
they want to have some water around for the revival meeting. Whether we installed the broad knowledge
culture in them or bequeathed it to them in their genes, they had it on
board. I do acknowledge that perhaps the
early and explicit focus, including the sendoff, may have been the final push
needed to make it happen, but I only say that out of obligation to appear open-minded. I don’t really believe it. What actually
resulted was their attendance at a school which reassured them they were on the
proper track for intelligent young Christians.
I had already begun to question this value when Ben was 16
or so. I recall a conversation with his
(ahem) guidance counselor who was explaining to me that colleges really liked
to see a well-rounded resume (as if he knew a lot about the topic), trying to
convince me that Ben should do something-or-other activity. I thought: Basketball, skiing, math team,
school plays, church leadership, part-time job, great grades, great SAT’s, a
couple of hobbies – if that’s not already enough…Y’know, that may actually be
too much. I think specialisation might
be the new goal here. And then I
thought: The really competitive schools seem to prefer one exceptional
ability, plus enough general ability to pass the other courses or go
cross-disciplinary, don’t they?
Adopting two Romanian teenagers exploded the theory even
more.
I wondered if I and my culture had thought it was a superior
thing to be well-rounded rather than one of those monomaniacal guys with no
social skills only because that plays to our strengths. Yeah, you know the best kind of person to
be? One like me.
I’ve changed my mind on that. I’m no longer even sure that
being well-rounded is even a good way to go, never mind the best way. Not that it’s ever that simple, of
course. Be great at something, the
rest is for entertainment. Eh, sumus quod sumus, we are what we
are. I don’t think the option of
sticking with a specialty was ever real for me.
I pick a new fascination every year or so, which allows me to just sort
of top off my knowledge in that area as maintenance for another decade or two.
Even in college, the summer before I expected to be in math but was already
dropping that by freshman orientation. I
was immersed in theater for 2-3 years, then switched to medieval literature.
Eventually my knowledge becomes dated enough, or misremembered enough, that
it’s no longer a going concern. Neither of those subjects interests me much
now. I still keep my hand in the game, I’ve collected a few dozen other topics
along the way. I no longer think of this
as anything I deserve credit for. I cannot do otherwise, and wouldn’t be happy
trying.
Might be a better choice if you can manage it, though.
We all are different (as you've noticed) and this shows up in interests and abilities. I'm glad I didn't have to worry about this when I went to college.
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