Just a random UU congregation, and what it says about itself. I was trying to imagine what different things an evangelical congregation would say, and quickly noticed that the equivalent statements - claiming that we were spiritually intense, or righteous, rather than spiritually tolerant - would come off as arrogant.
I'm not entirely sure what spiritually tolerant means, other than the idea that you don't say that other people's beliefs are wrong. It comes from the mythology that if white suburban Americans will just be a good example and not say that their Christianity is right and your goddess-worship is wrong, then eventually - okay, maybe not right away but eventually - there won't be any wars any more. Because Islamic people would have learned from observing our good example and just see how much better it is.
One of the ingredients of Manifest Destiny, I recall.